Client management is always a challenge; there’s an implicit, ongoing challenge to forming mutual and clear expectations. I recall my early training in project management as an architect and later as a freelance consultant, learning how the leadership of oneself and others includes client management. At Torti Gallas and Partners, Inc., we examined the impact of strong leadership on the performance of others.
Leadership of the client meant active listening (listen for meaning & dialogue bridging) first and foremost, then understanding the values each party brings, building strategic partnerships, and leveraging our company’s negotiation skills as a leadership asset. Leading by example–consistently—was something I learned at an early age. Inspiring, motivating, weaving a culture of communication and developing a coaching mindset were central principles I learned in my first years in the workforce. “Learning to say NO with love”, was a mantra of my first boss as well as ‘follow up, follow through, and lead’. Unique to my experience, I was taught at a young age to be a leader, so having my first boss encourage this was quite fitting.
Below is a list of qualities that I try to embody while on site with the client, whether in the private sector or the public sector. In the past, Drucker’s principles also motivated me to approach management and problem solving with the client in a true partnership.
Let me know if you would add to this list. What do you think good client relations entails?
QUALITIES FOR GOOD CLIENT RELATIONS
- Develop relationships early
- Anticipates needs
- Articulates visions passionately
- Is always “present”
- Confident
- Consensus builder
- Diplomatic
- Does not accept less
- Educator
- Empathetic
- Experienced / has track record
- Flexible
- Forward looking
- Negotiator
- Listener
- Good partner
- Inspired
- Knowledgeable / a step ahead
- Knows client’s business
- Knows how/when to say NO
- Knows our ideology
- Manages expectations
- Negotiator
- Balances assertiveness with discretion
- Persuasive
- Problem solver
- Respected
- Respectful / command respect
- Salesmanship
- Sells vision
- Strategic
- Teacher / learns
- Team builder
- Thick skinned
- Understands our value
- Understands client needs and expectations
- Visionary
- Willing to admit to mistakes
- Composed
“Company cultures are like country cultures. Never try to change one. Try, instead, to work with what you’ve got.” – Peter Drucker

